Eben Etzebeth suffered family tragedy before captaining Springboks against All Blacks

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Saturday, 12 September 2026 at 20:12
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Eben Etzebeth will once again go into battle against the All Blacks tonight, but one previous meeting with New Zealand came during the most heartbreaking period of his life.
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The Springboks great is renowned as one of rugby’s toughest competitors, but in July 2023 he showed remarkable courage to captain his country against their greatest rivals just days after losing his father.
Etzebeth was preparing for a huge Rugby Championship showdown with New Zealand in Auckland when he received the devastating news that his father, Harry, had died following a battle with cancer.
Etzebeth had said goodbye to his seriously ill father before travelling to New Zealand, knowing there was a strong possibility it could be the last time he saw him.
Harry died while his son was on the other side of the world.
Springbok management immediately gave Etzebeth the choice of returning to South Africa to be with his family or remaining with the squad.
He chose to stay.
Days later, Etzebeth walked out at Mount Smart Stadium and captained the Springboks against the All Blacks.
Long-time family friend Loukie Niemand later revealed that Harry would have wanted his son to take the field.
“Harry would have been angry with Eben if he withdrew,” Niemand told the Sunday Times.
The bond between father and son had also played a part in another huge moment in Etzebeth’s career.
A year earlier, his landmark 100th Springbok appearance was staged in Cape Town, allowing his cancer-stricken father to be there.
Etzebeth produced a man-of-the-match display as South Africa beat Wales 30-14, while his then-fiancée Anlia van Rensburg performed the national anthem.
Just months after Harry’s death, Etzebeth helped South Africa retain the Rugby World Cup, defeating the All Blacks 12-11 in an unforgettable final in Paris.
Tonight, Etzebeth will face New Zealand once again as the Springboks and All Blacks bring their four-Test series to a close in Baltimore.
For Etzebeth, it is a rivalry that has already provided some of the greatest triumphs — and most emotional moments — of his remarkable career.
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5. Eben Etzebeth (Hollywoodbets Sharks) – Estimated £770,000

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4. Siya Kolisi (Hollywoodbets Sharks) – Estimated £775,000

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3. Malcolm Marx (Kubota Spears) – Estimated £800,000–£900,000

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2. Damian de Allende (Saitama Wild Knights) – Estimated £850,000–£950,000

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