Jonny Wilkinson Reveals If His Son Will Follow in His Legendary Footsteps

Friday, 28 March 2025 at 10:32

byRugby Rucker

Despite his legendary status and the iconic drop goal that secured England's 2003 Rugby World Cup victory, Jonny Wilkinson is surprisingly reluctant to see his child follow in his footsteps.

The former fly-half, known for his relentless perfectionism and commitment to the game, has been open about the mental toll his career took on him.

Jonny and his wife, Shelley, welcomed their first child, a son, in 2018. However, Wilkinson has made it clear that he would not want his child to endure the same psychological struggles he faced throughout his rugby career.

In a candid interview with

Mail Online before his son's birth, Wilkinson reflected on the pressure he placed on himself and how it affected his mental well-being.

"I would hope to high heaven that if I had a boy, he would not get, or have, the same mindset I had," he admitted. "A lot of the pressure of my career I put on myself, the way I live life. And it was hell a lot of the time."

Wilkinson, who battled anxiety and obsessive perfectionism, described how his mental struggles continued long after his playing days. Despite retiring from professional rugby in 2014, he has spoken openly about the psychological scars left behind.

In his autobiography, Jonny: My Autobiography, he revealed how the weight of expectation and an unrelenting desire to be the best often left him feeling isolated and mentally exhausted. At the height of his career, Wilkinson’s internal battles were so intense that even moments of triumph, like the World Cup win, felt more like relief than joy.

He continued, "I’d see it as a waste if I saw my son going through it the same way."

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Although proud of his achievements, Wilkinson is eager for his child to forge a different path—one that allows for more balance and happiness. "I’d like to think, in a very honest, open, spiritual way, I’d be able to say, 'Do whatever you want.' But at the same time…" he trailed off, hinting at his hope that his son would avoid the mental burdens that came with elite-level sport.

Since retiring, Wilkinson has turned to mindfulness and spiritual practices to manage his mental health. He now advocates for a holistic approach to well-being, encouraging others to prioritize mental clarity and self-compassion over perfection.

While his place in rugby history is secure, Jonny Wilkinson’s greatest hope is that his son will find fulfillment—without the struggles that defined much of his own journey.

28 England players on Andy Farrell's 75-man Lions watchlist

British and Irish Lions head coach Andy Farrell has confirmed that a 75-player longlist has been assembled ahead of the 2025 tour to Australia. The competition is fierce, with Farrell admitting there’s no shortage of talent vying for a spot.

Looseheads: Genge and Porter Set to Lead the Charge

Ireland’s Andrew Porter remains the front-runner to start in the No. 1 jersey after his impressive performances in recent seasons. Scotland’s Pierre Schoeman offers a powerful scrummaging option, while Wales’ Nicky Smith is a consistent performer. England is well-represented with Ellis Genge, Bevan Rodd, and rising star Fin Baxter pushing for inclusion.

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Hookers: Sheehan and George in Pole Position

Ireland’s Dan Sheehan has been a standout performer and looks a strong contender to start. His Leinster teammate Ronan Kelleher provides excellent cover, while England’s Jamie George and a returning Luke Cowan-Dickie bring plenty of Lions experience. Dewi Lake is Wales’ leading option.

Dan Sheehan (Ireland)
Ronan Kelleher (Ireland)
Jamie George (England)
Luke Cowan-Dickie (England)
Dewi Lake (Wales)

Tightheads: Furlong Leads Strong Contingent

Ireland’s Tadhg Furlong is a near-certainty for the squad, while Finlay Bealham adds versatility. England’s trio of Will Stuart, Joe Heyes, and Kyle Sinckler offer plenty of competition. Scotland’s Zander Fagerson remains a reliable option.

Tadhg Furlong (Ireland)
Finlay Bealham (Ireland)
Will Stuart (England)
Joe Heyes (England)
Kyle Sinckler (England)
Zander Fagerson (Scotland)

Locks/Blindsides: Itoje and Beirne Among Favourites

Maro Itoje remains a key figure, with England also supplying George Martin, Ollie Chessum, and veteran Courtney Lawes. Ireland’s Tadhg Beirne and James Ryan provide leadership, while Joe McCarthy and Iain Henderson add depth. Scotland’s Scott Cummings and Grant Gilchrist will compete for spots, while Dafydd Jenkins looks to be Wales’ strongest option.

Maro Itoje (England)
George Martin (England)
Ollie Chessum (England)
Courtney Lawes (England)
David Ribbans (England)
James Ryan (Ireland)
Tadhg Beirne (Ireland)
Joe McCarthy (Ireland)
Iain Henderson (Ireland)
Dafydd Jenkins (Wales)
Scott Cummings (Scotland)
Grant Gilchrist (Scotland)

Flankers/No. 8s: Doris and Earl Set to Shine

Ireland’s Caelan Doris is a top contender for the No. 8 jersey, while Josh van der Flier and Peter O’Mahony add experience and breakdown prowess. England’s back-row options are loaded, with Tom Curry, Ben Earl, and Jack Willisoffering variety. Scotland’s Rory Darge and Jamie Ritchie are strong candidates, while Wales’ Jac Morgan and Aaron Wainwright bring dynamism.

Tom Curry (England)
Ben Curry (England)
Ben Earl (England)
Sam Underhill (England)
Henry Pollock (England)
Jack Willis (England)
Tom Willis (England)
Caelan Doris (Ireland)
Josh van der Flier (Ireland)
Peter O’Mahony (Ireland)
Jack Conan (Ireland)
Rory Darge (Scotland)
Jamie Ritchie (Scotland)
Matt Fagerson (Scotland)
Jack Dempsey (Scotland)
Jac Morgan (Wales)
Aaron Wainwright (Wales)

Scrum-Halves: Gibson-Park to Lead the Pack

Ireland’s Jamison Gibson-Park looks set to retain his spot after an impressive World Cup. England’s Alex Mitchell and Jack van Poortvliet will compete for backup roles, while Scotland’s Ben White and Wales’ Tomos Williams round out the options.

Jamison Gibson-Park (Ireland)
Alex Mitchell (England)
Jack van Poortvliet (England)
Ben White (Scotland)
Tomos Williams (Wales)

Fly-Halves: Farrell and Ford in the Mix, Russell a Wildcard

Owen Farrell’s leadership and experience keep him in contention, but England’s George Ford and Marcus Smith offer contrasting styles. Ireland’s Jack Crowley and rising star Sam Prendergast provide alternatives, while Scotland’s Finn Russell remains a game-changer.

Sam Prendergast (Ireland)
Jack Crowley (Ireland)
Owen Farrell (England)
Marcus Smith (England)
Fin Smith (England)
George Ford (England)
Finn Russell (Scotland)
Tom Jordan (Scotland)

Centres: Aki and Ringrose Set to Star

Ireland’s midfield pairing of Bundee Aki and Garry Ringrose looks set to continue, with Robbie Henshaw and Jamie Osborne adding depth. Scotland’s Sione Tuipulotu and Huw Jones bring attacking flair to the mix.

Bundee Aki (Ireland)
Robbie Henshaw (Ireland)
Garry Ringrose (Ireland)
Jamie Osborne (Ireland)
Sione Tuipulotu (Scotland)
Huw Jones (Scotland)

Back Three: Lowe and Keenan Lead the Line

Ireland’s back three trio of James Lowe, Hugo Keenan, and Mack Hansen remain front-runners. Scotland’s Darcy Graham and Duhan van der Merwe provide proven finishing power. England’s Elliot Daly and youngsters Tommy Freeman, Ollie Sleightholme, and Tom Roebuck are pushing for spots.

James Lowe (Ireland)
Mack Hansen (Ireland)
Hugo Keenan (Ireland)
Darcy Graham (Scotland)
Duhan van der Merwe (Scotland)
Blair Kinghorn (Scotland)
Tommy Freeman (England)
Ollie Sleightholme (England)
Tom Roebuck (England)
Elliot Daly (England)

Nation Breakdown: Ireland Leads the Way

With a total of 75 players predicted to make the longlist, here’s a breakdown by nation:

Ireland: 22 players
England: 28 players
Scotland: 14 players
Wales: 11 players

Andy Farrell and his coaching team will have difficult decisions to make as the tour approaches, with intense competition across every position. Expect plenty of surprises when the final squad is announced.